My Pre-Teen needed some more Space, so we decided to get him a Bunkbed.
A couple of years ago I was searching for a solution to the problem that I created by downsizing our house. We chose to live a leaner lifestyle, by moving from a 2500 sq ft house to a 1750 sq ft house. In doing so, we quickly found that space was at a premium. My son’s room is an unusual size of just 12 feet by 9 feet.
I knew that my son needed “more room for activities” as seen in the movie Stepbrothers. The solution was simple, a Bunkbed. However, the options to find a way to really maximize his space were limited. I wanted to get him something that would stretch into his early teens, even though he was only 6 at the time. My other key in this search was that I wanted him to have a desk under his bed like I had in the dorms.
Throughout most of my search I found plenty of options for storage, both under the bunkbed and in the steps that lead up to the bed. Most of these options were bulky so I knew that they wouldn’t work for us, given his small room. I ended up selecting this simple bunkbed with a desk below.
It shipped to us in a box, so my husband and I spend 4 hours of pure torture assembling the Bunkbed & desk combo. We accomplished the mission of saving space, but I’m not confident that it will last into his teen years.
The solution is that we are eventually going to move this into his little sister’s room and look for something that is stronger and more durable than what we currently have. I am open to suggestions for Bunkbeds that you have that work for children through the early teen years.
A few tips that I learned along the way:
- Measure, and make sure that your room has at least 2 feet of clearance on two or three sides of bunkbed frame.
- Make sure to plan where the ladder will go in advance.
I measured the fully assembled dimensions of the bunkbeds that I was considering and then cut some string with the same dimensions. I then cleared out his room and started to map out my options for placement.
The next consideration was getting the right mattress.
Most bunkbeds available in the US come in the Twin size. To clear up confusion between a twin-size mattress and a twin XL mattress let’s look at the chart below.
|Twin||38″W x 75″L||Children, Single Adults (under 6 ft.)||Leaves room for activites, used in most bunk beds||Children will outgrow them|
|Twin XL||38″W x 80″L||Split Adjustable bed users, Single Adults (up to 6’4″)||Used in Adjustable beds (buy 2)||Likely won’t fit in bunk bed|
Initially, I purchased him a cheap innerspring mattress. He was a small kid and didn’t have any complaints. However, one day I climbed up there and took a nap. Turns out that it was an incredibly uncomfortable, I could feel the coils poking at my back. I turned over to my side and things didn’t improve.
The next day I was on a quest to find him something better. As I was shopping I was searching for something that would still work for him in his early teen years. I bought him something with all the latest tech, it had infused cooling gel, air flow layers, a nice cover, you name it. It was also a sturdy 11” thick rather than the 5” cheap one he was on. Surely, this was the solution I was searching for, right?
Again, there were a couple of rookie mistakes that I made at this step. The guard rail for his bunkbed is a foot tall. If he were to toss and turn at night, falling out of bed became a real possibility. Also, the mattress was much heavier than the previous one. This means that I needed a Bunkie board to help the frame distribute the weight better.
After a few restless nights for me, I realized that the thick mattress just wasn’t worth the risk of him falling out of bed. I didn’t want to put him back on the cheap mattress, so I searched for a mattress that was between the two. I ended up going with a 7” all foam mattress, and I have never been happier with the choice. He is now safely within the guardrail and has a nice level of comfort.
I solved the space problem and gave him more room for activities, but I discovered a new problem. He now spends too much time on his computer. Sometimes I regret the decision to put a computer in there, but there are so many advantages to being computer literate at an early age. Will he grow up to be a programmer by learning how to code while young? Or will he spend his time watching funny animal fails? Right now, it feels like he’s doing about 50-50, so I’m on the fence about putting restrictions on his use.
He put together a book report in a PowerPoint slides without any help or input from us. When he was finished he told us about the project and asked us to watch the show. My husband and I were blown away by his presentation. As a third grader, my book reports were hand written. Our teacher would force us to read our reports to our classmates, who tried their best to not doze off during the presentation. His class hits the play button for the slideshow and gives a presentation. They are much more comfortable and confident showing off their creativity and hard work.
Give me your thoughts on whether you would allow your children to have a computer in their room, without time restrictions on it. He is my eldest, so I’m still learning and allowing myself to make a few mistakes along the way.